The definition for "rudely" means to behave indecently or in a shameful manner. This applies to how we speak, how we treat each other, how we act in public and in private. It also applies to how we treat each other intimately.

 This imeans love has good manners in actions and in words. Love is proper at all times and in every relationship of life. It doesn't use bad language or vulgar jokes. It doesn't do anything degrading or anything that doesn't reflect the Christian lifestyle. It shows respect for parents, children, and for those in authority. It also show respect for the opinions of others.

In the more intimate relationships, love does not demand or force itself on spouses or on those who are dating. Love never asks another to prove their love by doing something that is wrong. Love keeps the relationship between the sexes proper. In both the dating relationship and in the marriage relationship true love protects each other and keeps intimacy pure and safe.

If we have love we will be careful in our actions, both private and public. We will also treat each other with respect. With God as our Father, we are all brothers and sisters to each other. No one is any better than anyone else. For us to get along peacefully, we have to respect and be careful with each other.